A healthy relationship is always built on trust and mutual respect. (Image: Shutterstock)
Remember that every relationship is unique and requires effort and dedication to maintain.
Maintaining a healthy bond in a relationship takes consistent effort and dedication from both partners. While the initial stages of a relationship may be filled with excitement and passion, the journey that follows requires a willingness to communicate, compromise, and work through the inevitable ups and downs. The efforts made by both partners play a crucial role in creating a secure and supportive environment that allows for individual growth and fosters a sense of togetherness. However, it’s important to note that the efforts made in a relationship should be equal by both partners.
Psychotherapist Emily H Sanders highlights the importance of understanding what putting effort into a relationship looks like-
- Focusing on personal development.
- Expressing your thoughts and current life situation.
- Dividing household or parenting tasks.
- Participating in decision-making by sharing opinions, conducting research, or contributing financially.
- Taking responsibility for misunderstandings or disagreements.
- Spending quality time together without distractions.
- Initiating physical affection.
- Performing considerate acts (and expressing gratitude when receiving one).
- Complimenting your significant other.
- Providing assistance and actively inquiring about your partner’s needs.
According to Emily, “While it is important to ask your partner what they are specifically asking for when they request that you “put more effort into the relationship” (as needs and partnerships vary), here is an idea of what that can look like. These things are signs a person is investing in the health of their partnership.”
Tips on how to sustain a healthy and fulfilling relationship-
- Communication: It’s critical to have frank conversations with your partner. This entails expressing your emotions, participating in the conversation, and being open to compromise.
- Quality time: To keep a solid link between two people, quality time is necessary. This can include going on dates, having meaningful conversations, or simply enjoying each other’s company.
- Show appreciation: Show your partner that you appreciate them through small gestures such as compliments, surprise gifts, or acts of kindness.
- Respect: Respect the thoughts, emotions, and boundaries of your spouse. Avoid belittling or dismissing their concerns.
- Work as a team: Share responsibilities and work together to achieve common goals. This includes household chores, finances, and decision-making.
- Maintain intimacy: Physical intimacy is important in a relationship, but so is emotional intimacy. Be candid and share your experiences in an effort to establish a stronger connection with your spouse.
By prioritizing open communication, quality time, appreciation, respect, teamwork, and intimacy, you can sustain a healthy and fulfilling relationship.
