Getting married is a very big deal for anyone. To be able to spend the rest of your life with one person is an overwhelming feeling. But you need to be sure before taking such a big step. No matter if you have been dating for years or just met them but have that spark, marriage is something that you have to be sure you are ready for. If you are wondering when to pop this question to your partner, then you need to be sure of a few things:
You both have the same vision in life
If both of you want the same things in life then you can have a successful marriage. If you both see yourself together in the future doing things that you both approve of then it’s a match. Most marriages end because partners want different things in life, different lifestyles, life choices, and more.
How do you resolve a conflict?
One of the biggest things that make a pair a happy couple is how they get over a fight. When you have different opinions and you settle in a place where both are okay with the situation or you come up with a way that makes sense to both of you then you have found your best friend.
Finances
Marriage is not as easy as just dating. When you are sharing a life with someone then you need to make big decisions. Your outlook on the expenses and how you handle your finances have to be discussed. And if you both are on the same page about it, then you are off to the wedding aisle.
Kids and family
When two people get married, their families also become one. Things like family values, how you celebrate the festival, how much you want to visit your parents, or how much you respect each other’s culture really matters. Not only this you have to discuss how many kids you want and how you want to raise them as a bad marriage can affect the life of your child as well.
Sex life
Sex plays a vital role in a marriage and if you are both happy with your sex life with your partner then it will make your marriage sustainable, fun, and full of love.
